The brain processes emotional rejection and physical pain in the same regions. A 2011 Columbia University study showed that social rejection activates the same neural pathways as burning your hand — heartbreak literally hurts.
The "butterflies" feeling when you see someone you love is caused by adrenaline. Your body triggers a fight-or-flight response, diverting blood away from the stomach to muscles — creating that fluttery sensation.
Psychologist Arthur Aron's 1997 study found that strangers who asked each other 36 increasingly personal questions and then stared into each other's eyes for 4 minutes reported deep feelings of closeness and connection. Two participants later married.
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